WHEN A LOVER WALKS OUT ON YOU……… One of the most painful experience of love is when one partner loses interest, while the other retains his or her romantic illusions. It takes time for one partner to ralise that the other has burst the bubble and escaped. And with that realization come immense pain, disbelief and denial. You feel wronged, and like a fish out of water, try desperately to flip back into the earlier equation. People keep try pleading, cajoling, emotional blackmail, manipulation even threat –anything to get back the magic. Some like Jiah Khan, even give up their lives. But this is no way to love or be loved. You cannot, and should not force anyone to stay in a relationship, because and unwilling relationship causes unhappiness and is unnatural, often bordering on the dangerous. How can one person or a single emotion have so much hold on you as to wipe away the rest of your life? There is certainly something abnormal in this. Many people so firmly locked within their own emotions they fail to notice that their love is not reciprocated anymore. For, how can you love someone who doesn’t love you back? How can you suffer rejection and keep going back for more ? And if you really love someone, how about giving them the space to choose who they want to love and live with? Where is your pride, your dignity, your love for others in your life or even for yourself? Very lately I understood that one should give only as much as one can comfortable, give to a relationship be it emotions or gifts. The moment your give much more than your receive, or more than the relationship deserves, you raise your own expectations unrealistically and are bound to be disillusioned. And nobody, can destroy you or make you feel powerless in the a relationship unless you allow them to! “ Why GIVE SO MUCH TO ONE UNDESERVING RELATIONSHIP THAT IT LEAVES YOU ALL EMPTY WITH A GAPING VOID WHITIN ?” This is the unanswered question.
Posted on: Mon, 24 Jun 2013 17:45:25 +0000
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