WHY RELATIONSHIPS DONT LAST THIS DAYS: Normally, relationships starts on a good note with lots of promises, love and even trust. You find a man and a woman in a relationship doing very fine and living their life in a way that people around them admire them so much but at a time,you find out that same relationship will be broken and never gets back to its former state again. Lets look into some of the things that causes our relationships not to last longer. Pretense: This is a great killer of relationship. Always try to be yourself. As a man, do not pretend to your woman, dont tell her things that are not in existence in your life just to get her into your life only for her to find out in the long run or pretending to be good and nice just because you know she is from a good family only for her to find out that you are not what you presented yourself to be. As a woman, do not paint a picture of what you are not to a man whom you know that truly loves you just because you are desperate to get married to the man may be because all your friends are married. Let your man or woman know the truth about your life. Hiding things can destroy your relationship with your partner from the early stage and it kills the trust and love in relationship (eg) A man or woman who has a child before marriage (the so- called social mistake) should let his man or woman in his/her life to know about it to avoid future problems. Do not pretend to be too religious just because you want to marry him/her only for you to show your real self after the nuptial knot has been tied. In Africa, we believe in having a male child who will carry on the family name. So a woman who has no male child is not been respected in the family. Some men has also fail to understand that theres no special womb made to create male child. Many fail to look up to God and His word to us in Psalm 127vs3 Behold children are a heritage from the Lord the fruit of the womb is his reward. Some men becomes too hasty...
Posted on: Mon, 15 Dec 2014 16:30:12 +0000
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