WHY WOMEN CRY Tips •If the female who is crying on you is in a romantic relationship with you, it may be acceptable to kiss her on the forehead lightly and murmur quiet reassurances into her ear. You may also hug her a bit more tightly when her tears start to ease up. Girlfriends usually have more tears than strangers, and helping her expel these tears may be beneficial to your relationship. Hugging her also shows that you care about her and want her close to you. •Always respect women, regardless of how irrational they may seem by your standards; remember that they view you as being irrational too, for many good reasons. •Show her a cute thing, or do something to cheer her up. •If she tells you to go away, stay with her. She is testing your loyalty, and if you go she will be even more hurt and may find some other male to cry on. If you stay, you are telling her that you care about her and her emotions. However, as women age and feel more confident in themselves, go away can really mean GO AWAY, so learn the tone and heed it. Youll get the idea if she says something along the lines of Crying makes me feel better, I need to do it by myself, and Ill call you when its done. Now leave me alone please. or more simply, Just get out. Now. •Silk handkerchiefs are the most gentlemanly thing you can offer a lady to blow her nose with. This cannot be stressed enough. Have a large supply at the ready at all times if women are prone to crying on you. •Apologize, even if you have no idea how you could be related to the cause of her crying. This shows that you are sympathetic of her plight. •When you tell a woman youre going to do something (wash the dishes, replace the faucet, squash the saucer-sized spider that tried to crawl across her pillow), do it as soon as humanly possible. Women prefer promises to be filled sooner, rather than later. Crying resulting from your lack of doing something around the house will result in frustration and you risk outbursts when you ask whats wrong. You know what you did/didnt do. Go fix it, and make her life a bit easier. •If she admits to needing feminine hygiene supplies, do not under any circumstances run away. Follow her instructions as to how to get them and do so promptly. This is a test of your bravery and ability to follow instructions under duress. If you can complete this mission discreetly, consider yourself well within her good graces. •When all else fails, offer a woman chocolate. Chocolate (especially dark chocolate) contains chemicals that are known to boost womens moods and make them feel better. Try to ascertain if they like dark or milk chocolate, but if all you have is Hersheys, they wont hate you for trying. •After the tears have passed, offer her something. If she is a coworker, it may just be a cup of coffee and a doughnut. If she is your girlfriend, it may be a shoulder massage, bubble bath with all the aromatherapy oils she wants, or even just a quiet cuddling session. If shes a coworker youd like to turn into a girlfriend, use discretion.
Posted on: Tue, 19 Nov 2013 20:32:36 +0000
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