WHY YOU WILL KEEP SEARCHING… I have often said that the reason some people who wish to be married are still single is because they SEARCH wrongly. A lot of people do not seem to realize that the way one goes about an issue has direct consequences on the outcome. A lot of people don’t make an attempt to get to really KNOW whom they are introduced to. Almost like FACEBOOK PICTURES decide everything for them…forgetting that appearance can mislead-sometimes. If you are introduced to someone, make an attempt to get to really KNOW him/her. Hook up for a lunch date, cinema or some other DAY TIME outing and engage him or her in a conversation…that way, you get to know his/her values, a bit of his/her personality etc. Above all, you also get to know what he/she really looks like-in person. Pictures make some people more ‘good looking’ that they really are while doing a great disservice to some people’s real looks. GUYS…it is MOST irritating to call a lady on the phone and keep asking her if she is beautiful, her vital statistics(a code name for TELL ME YOUR BREAST SIZE,DO YOU HAVE BIG BACK SIDE)-before you even learn what village she comes from, the course she read in school or even her position in the family. The MATURED thing to do is to establish constant communication for a while, then exchange your MOST RECENT pictures-when you are comfortable enough with each other…in the case of people who are engaged in a LONG DISTANCE relationship. The POLITE thing to do is to invite a lady that you have been introduced to-for a proper OUTING…if you don’t like what you are seeing-politely DISCHARGE from there. It is only a SHAMELESS man that will be introduced to a lady and he immediately wants to pay her a visit at home. CLASS is not in the clothes you wear…it is actually in your conduct! Looks are even more important than VALUES/CHARACTER-to some human beings…does LOOKS make a marriage? A lot of people are busy listing the attributes that a potential partner must possess and it’s not surprising why they keep getting it wrong…HUMAN BEINGS DO NOT COME WITH A GUARANTEE-otherwise, there won’t be divorces in marriages. Learn to become that which you wish to see in another. You want a BORN AGAIN for a spouse…how much of a BORN AGAIN are you, deep down? Learn to make yourself ’the project’...work on yourself so much so that there’s just a STANDARD for whoever that wishes to be a part of your life. You can’t be wishing for a prince charming/Princess when you have not bothered to become one. You want a WORKING CLASS LADY…I hope you are EMPLOYED-because WORKING CLASS seems to be synonymous with A WOMAN THAT WILL BE PICKING MY BILLS. You want a MATURED MAN…I hope you are not looking for a man to LIVE ON.MATURED MAN seems to be synonymous with A LOADED OLDER GUY. The starting point to getting it right in a relationship is making HONESTY your watch word. The pictures you send him/her-how RECENT are they? It is DECEPTIVE to keep uploading OLD pictures to a potential partner…YOUR LOOK TEN YEARS BACK IS DIFFERENT FROM YOUR LOOK NOW! The AGE you are claiming…is that really your age? The need to under age one’s self is borne out of a deep seated INSECURITY…otherwise, you should realize that it is NOT only YOUNG people that have good relationship prospects…there is someone for everyone!
Posted on: Wed, 09 Apr 2014 04:05:20 +0000
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