Wanted to share this womans site because she is just so sweet... Thank you Dianne Penn for sharing! From Neecys Nest, article Don’t be that Black woman that STAYS LOSING — YOU GET WITH A MAN WHO DOESN’T HAVE TO HAVE YOU There is a site i visit frequently. Its called the Platinum girl celebrity blog and its written by a White woman who dishes her relationship advice on celebs. Her purpose is to use celebrities as examples for everyday women to see what to and what NOT to do when in relationships. Her purpose is to encourage women to always be a PLATINUM GIRL when it comes to love and relationships. She shares the close views of the women who wrote THE RULES and pretty much most of her advice is based on that. If there is any one group of women who needs to follow THE RULES it is Black women. Black women for the most part have never been given any real solid advice on how to deal in relationships with men, thus why we see so many BW settling with men who simply use them, suck them dry and basically do nothing to show his love for you as women. Black women have been happily accepting the PLASTIC GIRL role when you should be aiming to be a PLATINUM GIRL that only deals with men who are emotionally available and willing to show their desire to bring their half to the table in a relationship. The one thing I see consistently in her messaging is that a woman should only be with a man that HAS TO HAVE HER. The reasoning behind this is, because when a man has to have a woman, you are the apple of his eye and he wants the world and everyone to know it and he will go to great depths to show you why. No, this is not a man supplicating. There is a difference between a supplicating man and a man who simply has to have a woman and will do all the right things to keep her and stay in her good graces. You always want a man to be highly into you because nine times out of ten he will make the best long term partner for you, will protect and cherish you. This means that when your self esteem is tight and in check you will only attract men who actually appreciate that and not sociopaths looking to use and take without giving. If you allow yourself to be with a man who doesn’t have to have you, is not reciprocating or bringing his half to the table – YOU ARE LOSING. neecysnest.wordpress/2014/08/10/dont-be-that-black-woman-that-stays-losing/#comment-10355
Posted on: Wed, 03 Sep 2014 05:27:09 +0000
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