We can always choose to perceive things differently. You can focus on whats wrong in your life, or you can focus on whats right. - Marianne Williamson As Marianne says, its all a matter of perspective, its what we choose to put our focus on that counts. If we spend all our time thinking about a person or situation that did us wrong, we will fixate on it, keep feeling the negative feelings and get angrier or more upset. The worst thing about that is that well also be blind to all the people and situations that are good for us and to us, well overlook them in our living in the past. Who most deserves our time and effort? Even if it feels like you have to wear blinkers sometimes, there is a lot more good that comes back to you for helping to lift others up than there is in tearing them down, however badly theyve acted. We have to keep reminding ourselves that whoever they are that did that to us, its not their job to define who we are - thats our job and ours alone because we are the only ones who can think in our head. ;). Have a great Monday and a wonderful week all
Posted on: Mon, 27 Jan 2014 02:53:28 +0000