We need to make kindness our default mode...Some years ago I was a ball of fire, I responded to any and everything that was said about me or done to me...Well, that temper almost cost me my job...I did not like people talking badly about me especially if I knew it was not true...With age comes wisdom; although words do hurt and being spoken of in a negative way rubs me the wrong way, I have to consider the source of the negativity and then I remember that I no longer fight my battles but God does an awesome job all by Himself. If you make kindness your default mode when dealing with other people, you may also begin to view people in a different way. Rather than seeing them as competitors who must be defeated in a conflict you can pray for them. Reputations are built and rehabilitated on your responses to adverse situations...I no longer respond to what others opinions of me are...After all, they do not have a Heaven or Hell to put me in and in reality, nine times out of ten, they are harboring some serious skeletons in their closet that they refuse to deal with...I am facing and have faced my skeletons head on, face to face, bone by bone...perhaps others should do the same...But that is none of my business...Be blessed and be a blessing!.....#CherylAliciaRodriguez#
Posted on: Mon, 08 Sep 2014 16:27:41 +0000
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