We need to understand the way we are wired I mean men and women Boys and girls Gentlemen and ladies Dudes and babe We are wired differently and so we see and perceive things differently This understanding helps us draw the lines around our relationships So we dont end up messing hearts and emotions and ourselves GUY You meet a lady She is single, available and ready You get along well, exchange numbers and become friends You call her up at odd hours Chat her up Ask if she has eaten You take her out on dinners and lunch and to the cinemas or just on window shoppings You ask how her day was If she has done her hair You ping and pong on all social networks You ask If she is in bed What she is wearing You Skype Make Video calls... You ask If her dream wedding gown will be long or short, white or pink You ask what kind of cake she would love for her wedding You ask if she will be willing to relocate since both of you live in different parts of the country/world You ask where she would like to spend honeymoon... In your mind, you think you are asking simple questions and claim you are not emotionally involved But not in her mind She has gone far Infact, very far... She has probably seen your grandchildren together... One gift God has given the female gender is the power of foresight The men folks have strength and power, but they have foresight Unfortunately, they take this too far in matters like this They see too far ahead even at a simple hello from a guy For some ladies, a simple you look good is already a marriage proposal Thats why guys, you need to know when and how to draw the line Dont ask a lady such personal questions unless you mean to go the whole yard ThIs explains why so many ladies are heartbroken claiming they were jilted And if you ask the guy, he will tell you he never proposed to the lady in question GUY You have no business asking a lady you are not emotionally involved with or you plan to get emotionally involved with what she is wearing at bed time. Are you a tailor? Whats your business asking what she ate for dinner and what she will have for breakfast? Are you a chef? There Is no reason calling up at a lady at midnight, and, consistently too, chatting for hours about stuff and details only lovers talk about if you do not have interest in her There is no reason sending romantic messages as well if you are not romantically involved GUY If you are involved in this form of subtle delusory dance around a ladys heart and you weave and wind your way all round her heart and just stop short of getting inside her already open heart, then you are playing games Thats why you will leave and find someone else... And thats why the claims of oh he jilted me...sob ;( !sob ;( ;(!! Sob ;( ;( ;( !!! Is so rampant. So, as precautionary method, LADY Guard Your heart jealously Guard it from attachments I refer to as butterfly perches You know the way a butterfly sees a fine flower form afar And flies towards it, dances Around it and then saps it and leaves for another beautiful flower... When a guy is getting too familiar and chummy Do yourself a Favour Ask what his mission is Be nice about it! If he says he wants to be friends, then be friends and remember, friends dont ask what you are wearing in bed or what colour and shape of it you are wearing, because, you see, such details are very pedestrian to real friends Never assume love until it is professed and demanded Until a guy tells you he wants to marry you, do not assume marriage Until a guy tells you he loves you, do not assume love Do you understand? You are great! ©N¥~$™.....☑
Posted on: Tue, 30 Sep 2014 06:27:12 +0000