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Wendy Pope Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. Ephesians 4:29 (NIV) My mouth has always gotten me in trouble. You might say I am quick to speak, slow to think. Apparently, the filter between my brain and my mouth doesnt always work well. I dont mean to hurt anyone. I mean, its not really gossip. Thats wrong, I know. But this is only harmless sharing ... really. Im concerned and share those concerns. Its just girlfriends talking. Right? The danger of just girlfriends talking hit hard after recalling a recent conversation with a friend after church. After speaking my mind, I realized the woman we were chatting about was very close to where the conversation took place. Panic and a sick feeling stirred in my stomach. Questions raced through my mind: Did she hear us? How should I act when I see her? What kind of excuse can I make up for why we were talking about her? Words from Ephesians 4:29 rushed into my mind as conviction filled my heart: Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. Nothing in that conversation had been helpful in building up the topic of our conversation. Not one word spoken brought benefit to anyone who listened. Our conversation was truly gossip — casual, unconstrained talk. That potentially-damaging conversation made me realize once again the power of my words. I can use them to hurt or to help. Im committed to making a change with my words. Oh how different my conversations are when I use the acronym T.H.I.N.K. before saying anything. This helps me determine if I should speak or keep silent. Are my words: T: True? H: Helpful? I: Inspiring? N: Necessary? K: Kind? I love to talk. But sometimes my careless chatter has hurt others, and my loose lips have left me full of regret. However, Gods Word and the T.H.I.N.K. acronym help me to use my words wisely. They help me know when to press pause so I can walk away from a conversation without any regrets. Will you join me in becoming more than just a girlfriend talking? Will you challenge yourself to T.H.I.N.K. before you speak and to use your words to benefit as well as to build up others? Dear Lord, You gave us one mouth and two ears for a reason. Help me think before I speak. I want to be a wise woman and use my words to help, heal, honor, benefit and build up those who listen. In Jesus Name, Amen. Related Resources: Click here to find out more about considering Wendy Pope as your next retreat or keynote speaker. Visit Wendys blog to read her personal testimony of the power of todays truth. This devotion is an adaptation of a teaching from Wendys Bible study, Trusting God for a Better Tomorrow: A Study of Psalms, available in e-book and soft cover. Reflect and Respond: Put to memory T.H.I.N.K. How can this acronym benefit your relationships? Is there a recent conversation you regret? Consider if you need to apologize for any hurtful words. Power Verses: Psalm 141:3, Set a guard over my mouth, LORD; keep watch over the door of my lips. (NIV) James 1:26, Those who consider themselves religious and yet do not keep a tight rein on their tongues deceive themselves, and their religion is worthless. (NIV) © 2014 by Wendy Pope. All rights reserved. Copyright © 2014 Proverbs 31 Ministries, All rights reserved. You signed up to receive daily devotions on proverbs31.org/ Our mailing address is: Proverbs 31 Ministries 630 Team Rd., Suite 100 Matthews, North Carolina 28105