What I notice a lot on Facebook, or anywhere for that matter, is posts being about and for women, about what men need to do to keep their woman happy and what pleases them. But it is so rare that you will ever see something being said on how to keep a man happy. Its like were chop liver or something. For example, out of 1000 pictures or whatnot you will probably find 5 pictures that actually say how to treat a man. And those 5 are most likely 5 married woman who know how to treat a man. The other 995 are probably women who have the attitude if he cant do nothing for me, I dont need him. But what are you doing? One thing about relationships nowadays, its most of the time one person doing it all. Relationships are not even suppose to be 50/50. Theyre suppose to be 100/100. But Im going to speak from a Christian based point of view and a marriage point of view. Im just going off from what I observe and learned. As a woman before you even think about marriage you should prepare yourself for marriage. I believe you should know your role as a married woman. Im speaking to my Christian women who are about to enter a relationship, or are in a relationship already. Question is do you know what your role would be as a married woman? Do you actually know what God says about how to be a woman in the bible? How do you uplift him spiritually? How do you support him? How do you provide for him? Where are you when he is at his lowest? How do you keep him uplifted in prayer? How do you encourage him? Besides knowing his strengths, do you also know his weakness? I believe these are things that you should think about as a woman before you hop into a marriage. If youre going into a marriage, notice I keep saying marriage, with the mindset of what your man needs to do to keep you happy, what he needs to do to provide, and youre expecting him to be this perfect knight in shining armor, dont do it. I know it sound weird for it to come from a man speaking about women but Im not telling yall how to be a woman. Just voicing my opinion and how I feel. 👌 Sometimes I just be feeling like men are not appreciated enough. Yeah we stupid, yeah we got major flaws, we do dumb stuff, we not perfect but we try.
Posted on: Fri, 15 Aug 2014 17:34:36 +0000
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