Whatever you believe about yourself is what you become. If you - TopicsExpress

Whatever you believe about yourself is what you become. If you believe that you are worthless, you will allow others to treat you as though you are worthless. If you believe that you are beautiful, others will see that beauty in you too. If you believe that you dont deserve to be loved, you will find that some people in your life will take what they can from you and and walk away without ever stopping to think about how they just proved you right in your thought of being unlovable. It is YOU that has to change how you see yourself so you can stop believing the lies that you have told yourself all of your life. The painful things that happen to us can either make us bitter, resentful and unable to trust others, (sometimes even unable to trust ourselevs) or we can allow them to make us stronger, more determined people. The latter allows us to help others, love others an perhaps help to bring out the beauty in another life. When we find a purpose for our lives and everything that happens in it, we stop looking at the why me? and start seeing the why not me? The pains in life are still not any fun with this mindset, but they become a lesson or experiance that you and others can learn and grow from! Happy Friday friends....you are loved