When I was a kid,whenever I asked something and my parents will say "no or we have some other more important things to consider first",right then I feel rejected..i get hurt...I dont understand y they have to make me wait? Then I want to hurt them back by not talking to them...or not studying good..I want them to pay attention to what "I want"....to pay attention to "ME..".i feel bad, so i want them to feel bad too... now I have my own kids...I fully understand the lines of my parents...and i just know now that I did succeed hurting them with my action..bcause parents want for thier children is to have a good future.they set priorities according to financial capabilities... watching thier kids doing things like losing interest in study hurts so bad...bcause what happen to thier future when they keep on doing those things ???what parents do is all for the good of thier kids.but kids dont understand that.they dont even think ..."does my rquest doesnt gi ve my parents a hardtime to handle bcause we dont have enough money? Or as kids did we have a moment to ask "hws my parents doin now? Are they fine?do they eat good or sleep good.when we were kids we didnt see how parent had sacrificed for us..they setaside thier dreams to give us our dreams..they understand us unselfishly And it seemed not good enough to us...until one day... Is too late....
Posted on: Fri, 02 Aug 2013 00:58:39 +0000