When Venus is debilitated we have a hard time enjoying what we have. We may be a bit nitpicky and find fault with a lot of things. As Venus is our capacity for happiness, and it’s better when were easily pleased, ( as shown by Venus exalted in Pisces). Venus in Virgo is not so easily pleased. Mars debilitated in Cancer brings a lot of emotions into our sense of discipline and structure. Often We vacillate between being overly aggressive (in order to prove ourselves) or an undisciplined mess. Our emotions in the moment (Cancer) are not the best support for actions (Mars). It’s very easy to experience emotional frustration when Mars is weakened. Mars and Venus are important in romantic relationships, as they rule the self (Mars) and compromising with the other (Venus). When one is very strong or very weak, it is usually a good time to emphasize the other. For example, with Venus debilitated, it is better to emphasize more Mars actions in your relationship, more individuality, pursuing your separate goals. When Mars is weak, it’s better to pursue more Venus stuff, compromise, lovey-dovey stuff, etc. However, when both are weak, our sense of individuality feels weak, so we try to compromise with the other – which also doesn’t feel so good - as they get on our nerves. The best thing is to realize you may be kind of fussy and hard to please and just accept that. Also, a good sense of humor never hurt anyone or any relationship. Realize that you may that kind of lazy and be sliding on your discipline. Be careful blaming others for it and nitpicking them over it. Before you start blaming the other person and nitpicking them, look at yourself. Thank you :)
Posted on: Mon, 19 Aug 2013 14:26:16 +0000
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