When interacting with others, especially in close relationships, - TopicsExpress

When interacting with others, especially in close relationships, its harder to accept that you are the creator of your own reality because heres this other bugger, clearly creating... and sometimes, as they offer things to you that dont feel so good, youd like to give them some of the credit, in fact, many of you would like to give them all of the credit, because if they would behave better, you would feel better... but, to give up the empowerment that comes from knowing that you attract for the sake of a little relief that blame gives you... in other words, sometimes it just feels better to say, well, if they were nicer, Id feel better, and its true, you would..but to say, its up to me to choose the way I feel about all things gives you utter empowerment, and the more you apply it and play the game of reaching for the positive aspects, the more you realize the creative control you have in your experience. ...especially with people you know, your expectation of them almost always gives you a repeat of whatever youve lived before..so there is something awfully refreshing about evoking newly and discovering the power of your ability to attract... your point of attraction, when it is absent of negative expectation, is in a very, very good place. When you are as you are, and you get into this rhythm of well-being, then it shows up everywhere, except where you dont expect it to show up. ~Abraham