When it comes to love the truth does not always set you free. People in relationships people tend to look at the world a little bit differently to the rest of the world. This is one of the reasons why you can have a girl who is being beaten up by her boyfriend tell you that it was either her fault or that’s how he shows her that he loves her. You can bash your head again as many walls as you want, call her stupid crazy naïve or backward because you are so high mighty because you now carry a matric certificate and think you know it all. You strongly believe your views on love are the right because just because your recently stopped wearing uniform you know so much. You are like an expert at this love and you sit on your phone or social network and send forwards that tell you what love is or what a real man is. You an expert on this and to be fair for a while you strongly believe in this. Then one day it happens, you fall in love. You meet Mxolisi Sibani from Quigney by East London Beachfront, not even at church and you feel like you have found the perfect man for yourself. He is sweet, he is kind, attentive and you feel loved. As time goes on because Mxolisi is very much human he starts to make mistakes but because you are in love you find yourself justifying them to yourself and your friends who because they are in new relationships if not single (they almost always are) start telling you he is not the right one for you. You defend your man because you are in love and rightfully or wrongfully so. That’s the reality of relationships. Those BCs that you send each other like teenagers in puberty do not work in the real world because nothing is quite black and white in the real world.
Posted on: Fri, 04 Oct 2013 17:53:39 +0000
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