When you take offense or become upset by something someone has said or done, realize that it is you, and you alone, who has attached that meaning to it. In doing so, you have also given the power to the person who youve labelled as the offender. It puts you straight into victim mode and thats not a healthy or fun place to hang out. Over this past year, I have learned that my response to a potentially offensive or upsetting situation is actually a reflection of what I see in myself...and thats not always a pretty sight! Be the Victor. Take back control of the situation by accepting responsibility and asking yourself why it invoked such a response in you. The world becomes a much more positive, happy, healthy & harmonious place when you get real with yourself. Jx
Posted on: Fri, 15 Aug 2014 03:45:21 +0000
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