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Will I marry a rape victim? Why not? I believe that the question should be, would you marry a rapist? Raped Girl .. ? Why to Victimize Her .. It wasnt Her Fault .. A Crime happened ... And innocent life With Lots Of Dreams crushed ... She isnt a Raped Girl ... She is a Girl .. thats It ... Just someone Forcefully Applied himself on her doesnt means that She get a Title of Raped ... Why cant I be the one who can completely change her perspective against men, love her so much that she forgets her past and moves ahead for a brighter future with me ! I would definitely marry a rape victim not out of sympathy or publicity stunt but because of the fact that she can accept me knowing that I belong to same species who committed the heinous crime and traumatized her life. I think she is more courageous than me and deserves much better than any other out there.. I want to clarify again that there is nothing heroic about marrying someone who has been raped. Do we call men heroes for marrying women who have survived car accidents? LOVE never happens with the Thing between Legs, It Happens with Heart and as long as I love her or tend to like her, I will But not out of sympathy.She does n’t need my sympathy, but understanding, not my constant over-protectiveness, but my acceptance of her state of affairs. My natural approach towards her, not over-chivalry just cause she has been a victim and more importantly give her full freedom and not just confine her in the 4 walls of my house, she is perfectly capable of standing on her own. Lastly,I would hesitate to marry her not on the basis that she is a rape survivor and I need to help her, but on the basis of other criterion like, education, understanding between us, maturity. I dont want a wife who will worship me like a GOD throughout her life just because I helped her but I want a life partner, a companion with whom I can share my life with whom I can share my soul..
Posted on: Mon, 29 Sep 2014 03:55:05 +0000

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