With the permission of my Queen and Mistress, Payatna Pusa. Play and Lifestyle bdsm. As I have said before. Bdsm is all about trust. No play should happen cheaply. Take the time to know each other. When you have the freedom to discuss fantasies between each other you are doing well. fantasies are usually dealt with in play scenes.... short term adventures that run their course and are then put away like the toys used. Play is essential however as it solidifies the trust and allows the partners to know each other better. That is the textbook and study material.... Yes most lifestyle bdsm lifestyle relationships evolve from play relationships. Once a play relationship has becomes a lifestyle play should not stop. it is common for lifestyle relationships to have a lifestyle dom and the other partner as the play dom. There is nothing wrong with this power exchange as long as the limits are recognized and kept too. In any exchange of power the boundaries should be clearly set and respected. As in any relationship there will be challenges. The clearest challenges will come from outside. the biggest error would be for one party to try to deal with it alone. That defies the term Partnership and destroys trust. I am delighted that my Mistress dealt with a challenge to our relationship by informing me and asking me to intervene. Together we dealt with the challenge. In the end I must congratulate my Queen on a very mature attitude and response to interference.
Posted on: Wed, 26 Nov 2014 00:48:40 +0000
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