Wow , I wish Infertility really was as much fun as all these ladies that pretending they had it thought it was , Im amazed at how some people really think its something to lie about . People really think its this thing that gets Me so much compassion and sympathy . Pretending you are sick when you are not is disrespectful to anyone who really is . Plus people who claim they cant get pregnant Then suddenly do .. Make My everyday life harder . Everytime someone asks if I have children ( which when you are 33 you pretty much get the question every DAY ) and I tell them No , I cant have kids I have to sit thru a Miraculous story about one of their friends that couldnt get pregnant but then they did ! and How I need to keep praying ,keep trying, or stop trying or eat a peanut or what ever other wives tale and Ill just be magically pregnant like their friend . So I after I suffer thru hearing about everyone elses miracle I get to say everyones favorite word Hysterectomy ! fun times ! and just so the wrong people arent offended I totally understand having pregnancy issues and when you have had tests and been to gyns and a dr tells you you might not be able to have kids then you try and try and eventually do thats understandable . Im talking about the girls that have never had tests never had any reason to think they are infertile other than they fact that they have slept around alot and not gotten pregnant .They want to throw the infertile word around like its No big thing when if they really were infertile they would have a totally different view . One of My best friends took 11 years to conceive her first and she NEVER went around claiming infertility while she was trying . People who lie about illness make people who really have it feel like hiding in the closet . Everytime I tell someone I cant have kids . I have to prove it ! because of someone else claiming infertility , then becoming pregnant ! because of their lies I have to prove My truth ? see where the aggravation is coming from ?
Posted on: Sat, 15 Mar 2014 18:40:33 +0000
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