~~~ YOM KIPPUR ~ DAY OF ATONEMENT ~~~ ~~ OCTOBER 3RD - 4TH, 2014 ~ FROM SUNDOWN TO SUNDOWN ~~ For on this day ~~ Yom Kippur ~~ He shall effect atonement for you to cleanse you. Before G‑d, you shall be cleansed from all your sins ~ Leviticus 16:30. On Yom Kippur, G‑d mercifully erases all the sins we have committed before G‑d ~ but not the sins we may have committed against our fellow man. If we really want to come out of this holy day completely clean, we need to first approach any individual whom we may have wronged and beg their forgiveness. This applies whether the offense was physical, emotional, or financial. (Seeking forgiveness is in addition to making appropriate monetary restitution). Just as the offending individual is enjoined to sincerely seek forgiveness, so, too, the victim is expected to wholeheartedly forgive ~ provided he is assured that the plea for forgiveness is indeed sincere. It is proper to specify the wrongdoing for which you are seeking forgiveness ~ unless doing so would cause further embarrassment to the victim. If the injured party refuses to grant forgiveness, the offender should try approaching him several times, each time in the company of a few friends (who can try to convince the victim of the sincerity of the offenders intentions). If the individual whom you have wronged has since passed away, and the gravesite is in the vicinity, take a minyan to the gravesite and beg forgiveness there. If the gravesite is not in the vicinity, you can appoint someone to go to the grave together with a minyan to ask for forgiveness on your behalf.
Posted on: Sat, 27 Sep 2014 04:11:40 +0000
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