YOUR WIVES ARE NOT YOUR MAIDS... Very crucial reminder.. Please - TopicsExpress



          

YOUR WIVES ARE NOT YOUR MAIDS... Very crucial reminder.. Please take note and share as much a possible. Your wives are not your maids they are your other half.. Our beloved Prophet (peace be upon him) couldnt stress more of the status of a Muslim wife, He emphasised in this topic through various narrations and His last will even was; I urge you to treat women well. (Bukhari 331 & Muslim 1468) It has become a very common thinking amongst our brothers to feel that that housework is beneath them, and some of them think that it will undermine their status and position if they help their wives with this work. Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) even after a hard day of work came home to help with the cooking and cleaning. He even took the trash out and sewed His own clothes. It was reported by Aisha (May Allah be pleased with her), when she was asked about what the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) used to do in his house; her response described what she herself had seen. He was like any other human being: he would clean his clothes, milk his ewe and serve himself. (Reported by Imam Ahmad in al-Musnad, 6/256; al- Silsilat al-Saheehah, 671) She (May Allah be pleased her) was also asked about what the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) used to do in his house, and she said, He used to serve his family, then when the time for prayer came, he would go out to pray. (Reported by al-Bukhari, al-Fath, 2/162). If we were to do likewise nowadays, we would achieve three things: • We would be following the example of the Prophet (peace be upon him) • We would be helping our wives in attaining a better home. • We would feel more humble & less arrogant. Some men demand food instantly from their wives, when the pot is on the stove and the baby is screaming to be fed; they do not pick up the child or wait a little while for the food. Let these Hadith be a reminder and a lesson. This picture speaks a lot.. Have some consideration. Spread the knowledge so it will be Sadqa-e-Jaaria for you and for me... In Sha Allah.
Posted on: Fri, 22 Aug 2014 15:13:53 +0000

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