Yes, I know a lot of people hate when others complain via social media, but in this instance I really dont care :-D so if that would happen to apply to you, Im advising that you not bother to read any further. Id like to send a huge LOL to certain individuals that like to think that because they know one itty bitty detail into a part of another persons life that they might not quite be ready to share with the world just yet, that they then think they have the right to assume what goes along with that one itty bitty detail of that persons (probably very personal, sad, and possibly embarrassing) situation. My last bit of this angry rant of the day is my personal opinion/advice; How about next time you find yourself in a similar situation, you actually take the initiative to reach out to the person about what theyre going through? Instead of commiting one of my BIGGEST pet peeves on this planet, and not only assuming you know whats really going on and showing empty empathy, but you pull a, let me know if you need anything or a I know how you feel/I know what youre going through/Ive been there. Fact of the matter IS, that just like a few of my previous rants regarding when people do this to people effected by cancer,...it applies to many many MANY other instances because... Every. Single. Situation. is DIFFERENT. Just like, every person is DIFFERENT, and how they interpret and choose to handle difficulties in life are DIFFERENT and are formed and influenced by DIFFERENT life experiences. So sorry (Im not sorry) to tell you, that even if a person has had the exact same course of events happen to them, even if they happened at the same time or place that they happened to you; you still do not in any way, shape, or form, know how they feel or what theyre going through. Oh, and offering lazy, vague help , let me know if you need anything, is then forcing that person to give up what little pride they are barely attempting to hold on to, in order to come ask for your help. A few better options; want to meet up for coffee and vent a little? Would it be helpful if I went grocery shopping, or ran other errands for you? Even something as simple as, let me come over and lets watch a movie or something, get your mind off all your current stress. I will end with one final thought, and that is I am feeling exceptionally lucky today for MY situation and all of the incredible people that have come into my life because of it... And again, if youd like to throw a hyprocrital entitlement tantrum and say how annoying it is when people choose to vent and complain via social media ... Go right ahead, because I now feel a million times better and when you are starting to feel things again (I miss Leon:-/) then do as my love Jessica would say/do and Share that SHIT!
Posted on: Mon, 12 Jan 2015 18:13:53 +0000
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