You dont force your children to call someone who isnt their dad, dad. You dont do that. That child will one day grow up & decide on their own whether this person was a father to them or not. I have MY DAD, hes been there my whole life. I also call my sisters dad, MY DAD, why? Because as my moms partner, he was there also. My mom never told me, this is your dad. I simply grew up with both of those men around, both were there for me, both supported me, so therefore, they were both my daddies. Females are dumb in the head, I swear. Whether my sons father is there or not, he HAS a dad already. I will NEVER tell him his dad is ANY of my boyfriends, if I ever have one of course. You wont see me post, Fernie & Daddy, ignorant stuff like that, no. If one day I settle down & Fernie decides, you know what.. this guy was there for me like a father.. then okay, cool. Other than that, no child should grow up believing any other man or guy is their father. Thats a decision you are NOT entitled to make, regardless of how you feel about the guy. Period.
Posted on: Sun, 03 Aug 2014 03:08:59 +0000