You dont need me to tell you how these relationships begin. The narcissist, borderline, and partner all get caught up in idealized, obsessive relationship in which I love yous are declared more quickly than the time it takes to download Hello, I Love You, by the Doors on the Internet. I have yet to hear a relationship tale that didnt begin with the terms white knight, princess, fairy tale and soulmate. And too often, the tale ends unhappily when the person who was split white either becomes split black (often in the case with BPs) or discarded when they start making demands and fresh narcissistic supply comes along. People confuse intensity with intimacy, which takes time, self knowledge, honesty, consideration, and willingness to be vulnerable. Continuing reading/learning at the link below:
Posted on: Wed, 21 Jan 2015 03:28:09 +0000
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