You will never know a man from afar until you draw close to him. From afar, the way he carries himself, the way you think he pays attention to you, the way he looks at you, adorns you, the way he spend cash, the way he takes you out......... learn not to make excuses for a man, please never make excuses for a man, any man. Just because you want him to like you does not mean you should condone rubbish, it doesnt mean you should take every insult, it doesnt mean you should allow him behave like a child and let him go away with it. No! on the contrary, he will lose respect for you when it became obvious that every thing he does is ok by you. You just look at something he does and say ok, forget about it, dont worry, i know you are not serious, i understand, hmmmmm, when you become that kind of girl, he will lose his respect for you, so be firm but respectable. Know your rights as a woman, as a human, as a daughter, as a sister, as a friend and as a girlfriend is concerned. Do not make excuses for any man and do not condone what ordinarily you cannot condone, let him know his bads.. Some have a check list of the attributes that their man will posses, but they find it very difficult to find a man who have all the items the have in their check list and when the actually get one, they close their eyes at any other fort of that person because the thought that for some one to have all the item in their check list such one have to be perfect, but at the end of the day, it doesnt make in their way. You have this check list but you keep thinking... He has to be tall, he has to be handsome and he has to have a good sense of fashion, he has to be wealthy, he has to work in a bank, he has to drive a nice car. And any man who has these items is the man. Please, what do you think you are doing? At the end of the day it doesnt work any way for you because you do not want a man, you want the correction of you imagination. Of course, you know is not going to be possible. If you have to go for someone, you have to accept the person with all the package he came with and not one you made up in your head. Sometimes, in writing a check list you want from a man, sometimes in writing them down, you actually write what you want and not what you need and that doesnt end well. I learn something, when a man is focused, sincere, hard working and God fearing, he is worth going out, especially if the man values you. He worth giving a try. Whether he has money or not, that is not important, that he is tall, short, handsome, ugly. That is not important. I learnt the important things..for me, i want a girl who is focused, God fearing, hard working, sincere and who values me. And that kind of girl i will like to go out with if i decide to start searching, but am not searching . That is it for me. I didnt barb my head to get them, i got them from a little experience. Everybody have the right to decide what the want in a man or a woman. And those who go after money na them sabiiii. Never forget that no man will like to marry a woman who seat at home, fold her leg and hands and wait for the man to provide..... I hope you will be kind enough to share your lessons..just one that you actually learn in the course of dating, it could help someone out their make the right decision when he /she goes out from the track thinking that is the right track.
Posted on: Sat, 30 Aug 2014 06:00:06 +0000
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