Zane Im really confused right now. Well for one, my childs father wants to make things right between us and be a family. Weve been off and on 3/4 years now. Dont get me wrong, Im all for it. But he has a past of cheating and lying. We recently he proposed to me Bc he thinks he lost me. I finally stood my ground and cut him off. Zane he has been blowing me up! I have completely blown him off. I love him with all my heart. But this is the thing, Im not sure if I should take him back. Weve been together for four years. I just dont want to waste anymore time. I dont want to humiliated. This is first time talking about marriage, the ring is beautiful. Im only 23 and hes 25. Well heres the confusing part, Ive been talking to someone else. This guy genuinely likes me. He knows my whole situation. But I dont want to break his heart! I havent told him about my ex proposing to me. So basically I need advice on what direction I should go. Work things out and be a family. Or move on with my life? This is a hard decision. You give the best advice!! So please post this, I would like to hear some feedback. Please keep my name anonymous! Thank you Thanks Zane MY RESPONSE: Personally, I would not suggest getting back with someone who cheated and lied, father of your kids or not. The fact that you are even contemplating the other guy also means you have no business getting married to your ex. If your heart truly belonged to him, there would be no other options or contenders. On the flip side, you are not doing right by the new one either if you are pondering marrying another man. This leads me to believe that neither of them are your soul mate. You probably need to chill PERIOD and take the time to meet someone who is all that you want instead of a partial sampling. I get it, you will not do that. You are going to end up with one of them. Make the decision that makes the most sense for you. At the end of the day, that is all any of us can ever truly do in this life. Good luck.
Posted on: Wed, 21 Jan 2015 13:00:40 +0000
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