a trained NANNY for all a nanny will expose your child to flue, TB, hiv, STIs and a lot of bacteria and diseases that she brings along wherever she comes from. she will touch everything, do everything and be with everybody , and then touch or feed your baby. A nanny is a person who does a job that even the actual mother does not like. Many women do not want to be pregnant because of that very responsibility of caring for a baby. Its the same reason why you have to employ a and outside person because family members can not afford that responsibility and do not have time nje for ingane ekungeyakubo nabo. imagine ke umuntu wangaphandle. Nannies are paid too little, whether it is fair or not is another issue. Some families and employers are not so nice to nannies and expect too much from them. Some expect them not to have a social life or boyfriends, lento edala ulaka olugcina luphumele enganeni. most if not all the nannies that we employ never had any training and have no experience in being a nanny. They may have children of their own, but were never prepared/trained to be nannies. we just look for a girl or woman in the rurals or unemployed local girl to do the job. another better solution would be day cares and creche, but that one is not a commonly affordable option since nathi thina obaba beyingane sibuye singafuni ukukhokha noma vele kube ukuthi amandla awafiki lapho. Human beings do and create unnatural conditions and expect natural outcomes. it is not natural for a young one (baby) of one mammal to be taken care of by another. it does not happen in the animal world under normal circumstances. There is a natural bond that exists between a mother and a child that makes the loving and caring easier, that is why nurses will encourage you to breast feed. ingane icasula kwawena uwumzali wayo ngezinto ebuye izenze ngobungane bayo, how much more umuntu ongayizali one stress sazo zonke izinto ezenzeka empilweni yakhe ezifaka phakathi nokuhlukunyezwa wuwe nomndeni wakho nokuhola kancane. some nannies are just bad. they can be treated nicely and well paid but remain bad because they were not meant for the job and have a bad personality. and that is where training comes in. what we have seen in that video happens every day and it is so unfortunate that it happens to innocent souls. mothers must go to school, work etc etc an nannies are inescapable child service. but in an ideal situation a mother should take care of his own baby. a dog will bite a puppy of another dog, a hen will beak at chicks of another hen, a cow will kick a calf trying to milk from it belonging to another cow. we have known cases of step mothers ill treating children who are not their own. these are natural characteristics and behavioural patterns that no amount of civilisation can change. they are built in. Idealy and by some definitions, a nanny is a nurse or a grandmother, but since we want to re-invent our own things, we end up becoming victims of our own inventions.
Posted on: Wed, 26 Nov 2014 12:24:43 +0000
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