forgiveness begins with the admission and accountability of the other person if in fact the other person feels that they actually committed an actual transgression against you (which is not always a given) ..if you dont have that then there is no way that what is felt is forgiveness. It actually may be more akin to delusion. You cant forgive someone who would argue with you about having done anything wrong to you. People often talk of forgiving other people YET there has been no accountability. The other person may beg to differ that you have anything to forgive them for. There are times when forgetting someone is far healthier than make believe forgiving them. What ultimately it takes is honest communication. Yet normally that is not what actual transgressors allow. So then its time to start forgetting them.
Posted on: Wed, 24 Sep 2014 17:57:10 +0000
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