i HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY TODAY ITS NOT OFTEN i POST ON HERE SO WHEN i DO LISTEN UP CUS ITS ABOUT SOMETHING THAT HITS NEAR AND DEAR TO MY HEART,i KNOW THERE ARE SO MANY OF MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY OUT THERE THAT HAVE HAD TO BE SINGLE MOMS/DADS TO THERE CHILDREN AND THOSE OF YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE ,iTS NOT EASY BEING A SINGLE PARENT THE ONE SOLE PERSON ,UR CHILDREN LOOK TO FOR LOVE, PROTECTION AS THE ONE THAT FEEDS THERE HUNGRY MOUTHS PUTS A ROOF OVER THERE HEAD MAKES SURE THEY DONT GO TO BED DIRTY AND COLD,OR TO SCHOOL IN CLOTHES THAT DONT FIT THEM OR WITH OUT TUCKING THEM IN AT NIGHT THE ONE THEY RELY ON WHEN THERE FEET HURT CUS THERE SHOES HAVE GROWEN TO SMALL AND NEED NEW ONES OR THE FINGERS DONT FREEZE WITHOUT MITTENS IN THE WINTER TIME OR WHEN THERE IS A SCHOOL;CARNEVAL TO GO TO AND THEY WANT TO GO AS WELL AND PLAY ALL THE GAMES THEY INNOCENTLY JUST BELIEVE THAT THERE NEEDS WILL BE MET i REMEMBER THE CLASSIC PHRASE I USED GROWING UP PLEASE I WANT TO .... AS MY MOM OR DAD WOULD REPLY DURING THOSE TOUGH TIMES THE RESON WHY I CUDT DO WHAT I WANTED TO DO OR GET WHAT I WANTED TOGET....BUT YOU GOT A PAPER CHECK BOOK ,IS WHAT I WOULD SAY. OH HOW HELPLESS AND INADEQUATE I ASSUME MY FOLK WOULD FEEL HAVING TO TELL ME NO AND HOW PAINFUL IT WAS TO SIT SND WATCH ME CRY FOR SOMTHING THEY CUDT GIVE TO ME. AND i DID NOT COME FROM A SINGLE PARENT FAMILY BUT A LOVING ONE WERE I WAS BROUGHT UP ACCORDING TO THE BIBLES INSTRUCTION,,AND FOR THIS DADDY.... I AM SORRY IF I EVER MADE YOU FEEL LIKE THAT Sheila AndArnold Monge, Cus i know how helpless a parent feels when its difficult to provide for there children there every wish But I do remember the SACRIFICE MY FATHER WOULD GIVE AFTER COMING HOME AFTER A 12 HR DAY OF WORKING IN A HOT MACHINE SHOP ,HE WOULD PULL A BURNING BARLY INTO THE MIDDLE OF OUR DR.WAY AND START A FIRE AND SPEND YET ANOTHER FEW HRS MELTING OF THE PLASTIC FROM COPPER WIRING OR CRUSHING CANS OR FIXING THE CAR OR DOING THE WHOLE OTHER FULL TIME JOB HE HAD JUST TAKING CARE OF THE OTHER PART THAT IS REQUIREDS IN PROVIDING FOR UR FAMILY JUST SO THAT US KIDS WOULD HAVE WHATEVER IT WAS WE NEEDED TO BE CARED FOR i REMEMBER HIM BARLEY DRAGGING HIMSELF IN FROM OUTSIDE EVERY NIGHT TO EAT SUPPER GO INTO THE BATHROOM GET READY FOR BED AND MOST TIMES BARLY MAKE HIS EXHAUSTED BODY WALK INTO HIS CHAIR TO SPEND A LITTLE BIT OF TIME WITH HIS FAMILY BEFORE WIERLY MAKING HIS WAY UP STAIRS WHERE HE WOULD ALWAYS ATTEMPT TO READ BUT USUALLY ONLY SUCCEEDED IN FALLING ASLEEP JUST TO GET BACK UP AT 4:30 AM TO DO IT ALL OVER AGAIN .HOWEVER HE ALWAYS SEEM TO SUCCEED AT BEING AROUND WHENEVER OR FOR WATEVER WE NEEDED HIM FOR EVEN THOUGH HE WAS WORKING i NOR MY SISTERS NEVER FELT NEGLECTED OF LOVE FROM HIM,OR WEN WITHOUT THE STAPLES ONE NEEDS TO LIVE BECAUSE WE KNEW BY HIS SACRIFICES AND THE WAY HE ALWAYS SEEM TO PROVIDE ,FOR US THAT WE WERE THE REASON HE GOT-UP EVERYDAY AND DID THE THINGS HE DID,,AND i REMEMBER HOW MY MOM MAD SURE THAT EVERY MEAL WAS ACCOUNTED FOR THE BILLS WERE PAID ON TIME SO WE DIDT GO WITHOUT HEAT LIGHTS MAKING SURE THAT SHE BUDGETED IN SCHOOL FEES ,SCHOOL LUNCHES ,TRANSPORTATION EVERYTHING RIGHT DOWN TO THE TOILETRYS AND SHAMPOO,SO YES I FIND MY SELF AMONG-ST THE LUCKY ONE TO HAD A PARENTS THAT GAVE SUCH SACRIFICES NEVER ONCE PUTTING EACH OTHER ON CONDITIONS OR HOLDING US KIDS NEEDS OVER THERE NEEDS TO BE SATISFIED FIRST BEFORE THEY WOULD PROVIDE NEVER I GUESS MY MOM AND DAD WERE QUIET A TEAM EACH PROVIDING IN THERE OWN WAY DOING WHATEVER IT TOOK FOR WHATEVER THE REASON BEING (THANKS DAD FOR ALLOWING ME THE PRIVILEGE TO USE YOUR PARENTING AS A PRIME EXAMPLE OF WHAT A PARENTS LOVE SHOULD TRULY MEAN AND WHAT IT CONSISTS OF N MOM FOR BEING A PRIME EXAMPLE OF DOING EVERYTHING RIGHT IN ASSURING THESES NEEDS WERE MET AND ALWAYS PUTTING US OVER YOUR OWN NEEDS NO MATTER HOW BAD YOU HURT ) THERE IS A PURPOSE ALTHOUGH i DO NOT WANT TO NAME NAMES AND MAKE ANYONE FEEL INADEQUATE ,(IM SURE IF YOUR READING THIS AND FEEL AQWARD YOULL KNOW I AM ADDRESSING YOU!!!!!!!OR AT LEAST MAYBE YOU YOU KNOW WHO IM TALKING ABOUT!!!!! I HAD ALL OF THAT IN TWO PARENTS GROWING UP HOWEVER I WAS LUCKY AND THIS DAY AND AGE AT LEAST 75% OF EVERYONE I KNOW ARNT AFFORDED THIS SAME LUCK ,BUT FIND THAT THEY ARE THE ONE DOING THE JOB OF TWO PARENTS WHILE CONDITIONS ARE HELD OVER THERE HEAD TO BE MADE TO COMPLY WITH BEFORE THEY CAN EVEN GET HELP FROM THE OTHER PARENT WITH THINGS LIKE LETS SAY WATER HEAT A ROOF!!!!!! AND THATS ONLY THE MAJOR THINGS,FORGET ALL THE MANY INCIDENTAL,THATS ARISE WELL THIS MESSAGE IS DIRECTED RIGHT AT YOU ,IF YOU ARE ONE OF THOSE CONDITIONAL PARENTS.(* OR A PARENT THAT ALLOWS YOUR OWN CHILDREN TO BE ONE OF THOSE CONDITIONAL PARENTS!!!!!!! ) BUT STANDS BACK AND ALLOWS THERE KID TO GO SPLURGE THERE MONEY ON EXPENSIVE THINGS FOR YOU OR OTHERS !!! IBUT NEVER TELLING THEM THERE WRONG FOR DOING WAT THE DO OR SHUD I SAY DONT DO!!!!i DONT KNOW HOW MUCH MORE STRAIGHT FORWARD I CAN BE WITH OUT EMBARRASSING YOU OR EVEN ME FOR THAT MATTER TO EVEN ACKNOWLEDGE THE FACT I KNOW YOU ,NOW IM NOT SAYING IM PERFECT AND IV MADE SOME GRAVE MISTAKES AS A SINGLE PARENT AND i BEEN THAT HELPLESS PARENT THAT DIDT KNOW WERE SHE WUD PULL HER KIDS NEXT MEAL FROM AND I AM ASHAMED TO SAY i HAVE EVEN BEEN AT TIMES THE PARENT THAT PUT HER OWN NEED SELFISHLY ABOVE MY KIDS HOWEVER i WAS ALWAYS FELT EXTREME GUILT EVEN TO THIS DAY BECAUSE I WAS NOT RAISED BY SELFISH CONDITIONAL PARENTS !ONE WISE WORD OF ADVISE THOUGH IF YOU DONT WANT TO BE A PARENT TO YOUR CHILD, RESPONSIBLE FOR THERE NEEDS AND WELL BEING THEN DONT BE THAT CONDITIONAL PARENT THEN BUT KNOW THIS THEN I WILL DO YOUR SHARE AND PROVIDE WHAT NEEDS PROVIDING AND SACRIFICE WHAT EVER I AM TO THE VERY CORE OF MY BEING FOR HER BUT MOST OF ALL THAT BEING MATERIAL N MONITARY KNOW THIS THAT THE ONE THING IN YOUR BABYS LIFE THAT WILL ALSO BE PROVIDED FOR HER BY SOME LUCKY MAN ,AND THAT IS YOUR BABY GIRLS FIRST FATHER DAUGHTER DANCE HER FIRST DRIVING LESSON HER FIRST PROM HER FIRST FATHER DAUGHTER WEDDING DANCE AND SO ON YOU GET THE PICTURE..... CUS EVEN THOUGH STATISTICS FOUND ME AND MY KIDS SO DID THE ... YOU READY FOR THIS..... DADDYS THAT DIDT HAVE TO BE ~ BECAUSE MY KIDS ALL HAVE A DADDY THAT DIDT HAVE TO BE IN THERE LIVES AND THERE SPERM DONERS AND THERE CONDITIONAL SACRIFICES ARE NOT EVEN A FLEETING THOUGHT IN THERE HEAD WHEN MY SON WONDERS WHOS GOING TO TAKE HIM HUNTING OR MY DAUGHTER WHEN SHE DOEST HAVE A BED TO SLEEP IN, CAUSE MY SON WELL HES ONLY WAITING FOR DEER OPENING DAY IN THE SEASON AND SHES ONLY MAKING DUE ON THE FLOOR UNTIL HER DADDY THAT DIDT HAVE TO BE GETS HERE WITH THE ONE BOUGHT AND BROUGHT ALL THE WAY FROM ARIZONA AND MY OLDEST AND THE ONE THAT UNFORTUNATELY HAD TO EXPERIANCE THE LACK OF THE MOST WELL HE KNOW KNOWS THERES NOTHING I WUDT GIVE FOR HIM AND HIS DAD IS THE ONE THAT LISTENS AND UNDERSTANDS HIM DISPITE HIS STUBBORN WAYS BUT VALIDATES HIS LIFE AS A MAN AND GAVE HIM SUPPORT AS A BOY TO DO WATEVER IT IS HE WANT TO DO AND AT THE AGE OF 19 WRKS AT THE DEL-MAR RACE TRACK ONE OF THE WORLD BIGGEST HORSE TRACKS IN THE WORLD WRKING ON THE WRLD CHAMPION RACE HORSES AND PROBABLE CLEARS MORE IN ONE CHECK THEN U CAN IN A MONTH SO THANK GOD THERE ARE DADDYS THAT DIDDT HAVE TO BE IN THIS WORLD AND TO ANSWER THAT QUESTION FOR YOU ALL OF MY BABYS ARE LUCKY ENOUGH TO HAVE BEEN FOUND BY THE MEN THE DADDYS THAT DIDT HAVE TO BE SO UNLESS YOUR DAFT OR DUMB I HOPE YOU SEE WHAT IM SAYING HERE LOVE IS UNCONDITIONAL OR SHUD BE IF URS IST EVENTUALLY UR BABYS HEART WILL FIND ITS WAYS TO THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE THAT DOEST HAVE TO BE ....~~~~~~~!!!!!!!!!THERE IM DONE SAYING ALL I GOT TO SAY SO PULL UR HEAD OUT AND GET WITH IT SHOULDT HAVE TO WAIT FOR NO PATERNITY COURT ORDER TELLING YOU TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR BABY IF YOU DO.. THEN DO HER A FAVOR AND JUST TAKE OFF NOW CUS SHE THE FORTUNATE ONE TO BE RID OF YOU AND IF U WANNA REPLY THEN BE PREPARED TO BE THE FOOL CUS YOU CANT ARGUE WITH SOMETHING SO PURE IN TRUTH AS WHAT I JUST SAY BUT I WELCOME THE CHALLENGE TO PUT U DIRECTLY IN THE LIME LIGHT,AND IF THIS AFFECTS YOU NEGATIVLY THEN TOUGH BUT ITS TIME SOMEONE TOLD YOUY WATS UP N THE TRUTH OBVIOUSLY NO ONE ELSE IN UR LIFE IS GOING TO SAY IT AS LONG AS U KEEP BUYING THERE LOVE TO THEM YOUR THE BEST SON IN THE WHOLE DAMN WORLD SHAME ON YOU BOTH AND IM NOT TALKING ABOUT THE BABYS MAMA NEITHER BUT MAYBE YOURS
Posted on: Fri, 24 Oct 2014 18:57:57 +0000
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