love is not a feeling, it is a commitment; love is accepting someones imperfections & promising to be by their side no matter what, having loving feelings towards someone will always fade & a much uglier feeling WILL take its place, its not a question of if, it is only a question of when, but the feelings you have for your family members never dies, does it? why? it is because you love them not because of the feelings you have towards them but because they are your family & you will be by their side no matter what, it is the same with your partner, you love them meaning you will be with their side no matter what & the ups & downs will take place how Allah swt. has planned them to, the higher the ups in a relationship the lower the downs, but making a commitment saying you will be by their side through the ups & the downs, that is love, not just the ups & the positive feelings towards them but the downs & the hatred is love also, that is why Islam does not allow love before marriage, to protect us, there is no such thing as love before marriage, only strong positive feelings towards someone & once those die away & the negative feelings come you will say shit like I no longer love you, you have changed, there is no such thing as love before marriage people...
Posted on: Wed, 27 Aug 2014 12:56:00 +0000
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