thousands of years, men have had to go out and find their lovers. I have recently received a lot of e-mail from men who proclaim, why should we go after them ? Fair enough. So you want her to come to you? Ask and you shall receive — here are the Top 10 ways to pique her interest and make her pursue you. 10. Do not be too friendly So many men ask why their female friends choose to remain only friends. Well, if you discuss topics that friends discuss, then she will classify you as a friend. Yes, relationships should blossom into full-fledged partnerships, but this is not so at the beginning. And if this isnt enough, she will tell you sordid stories about all the other men she likes and is pursuing. Act chummy and that is what you become — a chump. 9. Keep her guessing Women like mystery . Now, Im not implying that you should lie to them, nor am I saying that you should play games, but you should leave something hidden. Put your life story in a press release and send it to her, and I guarantee that you will be flying solo for a while. Feed her a bit but always keep her curiosity growing, and her interest in you will do the same. If a woman thinks she has you figured out, she will get bored, but if she wishes to determine what else lies between your two extremes (this last word of wisdom comes from a special young woman, so take her word for it), she will look forward to seeing you again and again. 8. Do not make the first move I usually think that in some situations, being straightforward is the only way to go, but you know what? Relationships are, for the most part, about games. And whether you wish to admit or deny it, you must agree that the second you find out someone is interested, your level of interest craters. Its almost like having already added another notch to your belt. Except of course, if this involves the one person that you feel you were destined to meet, in which case you just keep on smiling. So show some interest — this is the bait after all — but keep your cards to your chest instead of slamming your two-of-a-kind on the table. Who knows? You may end up with a full house if youre patient. 7. Play hard to get This one is an extension of the do not make the first move advice. The difference is simple; even if she knows you are interested, do not throw yourself at her disposal. If she knows that you would walk over water and swallow fire to be with her, then she will rain on your parade and pitch a lit match on your dreams, so let her know that you have places to go and people to see. 6. Be the best you can be No, do not join the army, even though women like men in uniform. Rather, make sure you smell good, have fresh breath, are well-groomed, and look your best. Yes, some women do not care about looks, especially when your bank account swells to the 7-digits. But the same way that men demand their women be good-looking, women demand and deserve the same. You have been warned. She has bitten the bait, now its time to pull your fish out of the water...
Posted on: Sun, 09 Mar 2014 00:22:44 +0000
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