you cannot change your lover. as much as you may want you, you cannot play God and reach into their hearts and mold them into what you want them to be. but thats what couples spend a large part of their time trying to do change their lover. insanity has been described as doing the same thing over and over expecting different results. but isnt that what happens when you try to change your mate its frustration at it highest level. at some point you have too accept that its not something you can do. but here what you can do. you can become a wise farmer a farmer cannot make a seed grow into a fruitful crop. he can argue manipulate, or demand to bear fruit. but he can plant the seed into fertile soil, give it water and nutrients protect it form weeds, and then turn over it over to God. millions of farmer have made a livelihood from the process over centuries. they know that not ever seed sprouts. but most will grow when planted in proper soil and given what is needed. their is no guarantee that this post our anything thats written in my change your lover. this is not what is intended for. I am hoping it will encourage you to love and love hard when you do. if any one reading this is taking a serous look at loving a living soul. then I count it as a blessing that mean maybe some one would love so dear that they strive together for the behalf of your lover. remember they are a part of you and should have meaning an high regard. there is a high likely hood you will personally grow from inside out. have you ever wondered why God gives you this overwhelming insight of you lover hidden faults do you really think its for endless nagging/ no it is for effective kneeling no one knows how to pray for your mate than you. has your scolding or nagging been working the answer is no because thats not what changes a heart it is time to try talking to God in your prayer closet a man well find that God van fix his woman better then he can. a woman will accomplish more through strategic prayer then from all her persuasive powers. it is also much more pleasant way to live. so turn your complaints into prayer and watch the master work wile you keeping your hands clean. if your lover doesnt have any type of relationship with God then its clear what you need to start praying for. beyond this begin praying for what your lover needs. pray for their heart. pray for their attitude, pray for your spouses responsibilities before God. pray for truth to replace lies. pray that forgiveness would replace bitter pray for a genuine breakthrough in your relationship or marriage if you all ready made it their. and then pray for your hearts desires for love and honor to become norm. pray for romance and intimacy to go to a deeper level. and believe he hears and answers your prayers and know that he will satisfy your longing soul with his good needs one of the most loving things you can ever do for your lover is pray for them ask and it will be given to you seek and you will find knock and it will be open to you Matthew 7:7
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