youtube/watch?v=zehAWR9hQbE The wife does not have to obey anyone among her in-laws, whether that is her husband’s father, mother, brothers or sisters, in any matter, major or minor It is not permissible for any of your in-laws to enter your room without your permission, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “O you who believe! Enter not houses other than your own, until you have asked permission and greeted those in them; that is better for you, in order that you may remember” [al-Noor 24:27] Your husband has to *bear the responsibility that Islam has enjoined on him* You have every right to have a separate house in which you live with your husband and children, and you have the right to privacy, he has to honor his family, which also includes advising them and reminding them if they do something that is contrary to sharee’ah. He is also responsible for treating his wife kindly and he is responsible for raising his children. Your husband has to honor his parents, and ***you should help him in that*** You should not be the cause of a split between him and them! BUT They do not have the right to force you to do any of the things such as how to cook, how to dress or other things such as working and teaching etc. It is not permissible for them to interfere in your and your husband’s private affairs! They do not have the right to know the details of your life (you and your husband), and it is not permissible for your husband to tell them of any private or intimate matters between the two of you. Your husband’s visits to his parents should be on the basis of need. Something may happen to his parents which requires their son to visit them a great deal, such as sickness and the like. You husband has to pay attention to that! Husbands should honor their parents with regard to that which is *right and proper* BUT they should not obey them if they transgress the limits set by Allaah, or help them in wrongdoing! which includes mistreating their sons’ wives. They should discuss with them in a way that is better and not prevent them from obeying Allaah. They should be STRONG in adhering to the truth and confront those who stand in the way of their implementing the laws of Allaah in their homes, because the Muslim does not acknowledge any authority over him except the Qur’aan and Sunnah.
Posted on: Wed, 24 Sep 2014 12:44:52 +0000
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