10 Ways To Describe Your Wife Have you ever heard the difference, Between a Muslim describing his wife, Verses a disbeliever describing elegance, Clear distinction… Kafir describes physically attributes, Husband who fears Allah (s.w.t), Understands the years pass, External looks fail to please, Internal masterpieces counter external flaws, A’ishah (ra) reported that she accompanied the Prophet (pbuh) in travel, When she was slim, The Prophet (pbuh) told people to move forward, He asked, A’ishah (ra) to race with him. They had a race and `A’ishah (ra) won. In a later travel, When `A’ishah (ra) had forgotten the race and had already gained weight, The Prophet (pbuh) told her to race with him again. She declined, “How can I race with you while I am in such a condition?” The Prophet insisted and they did have a race. The Prophet won this time. He laughed then and said “tit for tat”. (Authenticated by Al-Albani) If your husband, Wife, Soon to be significant other, Can describe you in memory, Smile touched opposite hills, This is a blessed sign, I ask brothers, ‘What makes a woman beautiful’, ‘What do you look for in a wife’, Men ask for looks, Nice figure, ‘She has to have curves’, ‘An apple bottom’, ‘Be a freak’, Sisters no different ‘He has to look good’, ‘Be slim’, ‘Nice chest’ A’isha (ra) reported: It was the day of `Eid and some Ethiopians were playing with shields and spears. Either I requested Allah’s Messenger or he himself asked me whether I would like to see the display. I replied in the affirmative. Then he let me stand behind him; My cheek was touching his cheek and he was saying, “Carry on, O Bani Arfida (i.e., Ethiopians)!” When I got tired, he asked me if that was enough. I replied in the affirmative and he told me to leave. (Al-Bukhari) Muslims, We were meant to beautify each other, Reflect one another’s differences. Told by brothers and sisters, Hear of horror stories, Brothers believe Polygamy, Sisters not understanding reason, If we fear Allah (s.w.t), Remember the story of… A’ishah (ra), Prophet Muhammad (pbuh), and Khadijah (ra), Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that, The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) was asked, ‘O Messenger of Allah, which of the people is most beloved to you?’ He answered: “`A’ishah.” He was asked, ‘And among men?’ He said: ‘Her father.’ (Ibn Majah) (Authenticated by Al-Albani) Proper love, Not only loving your wife, Loving her family, Proper love, Not only loving your husband, Loving his family, `A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said, “Never did I feel jealous of any of the wives of the Prophet except for, Khadijah, although I have never seen her.” She added, “When Allah’s Messenger slaughtered a sheep, He said: Send it to the friends of Khadijah.” (Authenticated by Al-Albani) With love comes jealousy, One day `A’ishah (ra) mentioned Khadijah (ra), In a way that made the Prophet upset. He told `A’ishah, “I have been granted her love (by Allah)”. (Authenticated by Al-Albani) If you follow, You notice looks were never part of Sunnah, Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) was a man of integrity, True gentleman `A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported, The Messenger of Allah would give her a vessel to drink, She was menstruating, Then he would look for the spot where she had put her lips on, And put his lips on the same spot. (An-Nasa’i) (Authenticated by Al-Albani) Describing women by looks, The worst of flattery, I could sit, Write poetry about beautiful women, It would get old, Within days, Asked to write about something else, Biggest example for love, Anas (ra) narrated that the Prophet (pbuh), Had a Persian neighbor who was good in cooking soup. One day he prepared some soup and invited the Prophet (ra) to it. `A’ishah (ra) was present, So the Prophet suggested to the neighbor that she should join them. The neighbor refused to include her in the invitation. The Prophet, therefore, declined the invitation. The Persian repeated the exclusive invitation, For the Prophet who, once again, declined the invitation. In the third attempt, The Persian neighbor invited both the Prophet and his wife, (`A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her)) The Prophet accepted his invitation and went with `A’ishah to the man’s house. (Muslim) Allah (s.w.t) told us signs, ‘And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates, That you may find tranquility in them; And He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought’ (Ar-Rum 30:21) If you don’t believe, Watch TV, Media in the West, Middle East, All the same, Beauty shown by, Half-naked woman on the screen, Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated, That the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “The most complete of the believers in faith, Is the one with the best character. And the best of you are those who are best to their women.” (At-Tirmidhi) (Authenticated by Al-Albani) Done explaining, They asked, ‘What do you love about your wife’, (If I was married I would reply like this) Raise my finger to the sky, Allah (s.w.t) alone deserves to be worshiped, ‘She fears Allah (s.w.t)…
Posted on: Sat, 27 Sep 2014 19:31:56 +0000
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