11 Places You Need to Have S£x At Some Point In Your Life Expanding your s’exual experiences by having s’ex outside the bedroom can bring you closer to your partner, teach you about what tu-rns you on, and help you feel s’exually empowered, says s’ex and relationship expert Kate Ph.D. Changing locations removes you from things in your home that stress you out and gets your adrena-line pumping, which helps you get even more aro-used than usual, says Kate. And get this: Sharing feelings of excitement can help co-uples get connected during the experience and after. “If you have these cool experiences together, you can pull from those memories when you’re having s’ex at home and channel that excitement,” she says. One thing to keep in mind: Getting it on in a new location is more about having a new thrilling experience than trying to achieve a mind-blowing or-gasm. The fact is, some women could struggle to reach the big O because they might not be focused or they are limited in the kinds of positions they can do. Here, 11 places you should put on your s’ex bucket list. Your Backyard Getting busy in your backyard is a great way to get all the benefits of having s’ex outdoors and away from home—without having to worry that you’ll get caught. Plus, you can always pitch a tent so your guy can, um, pitch a tent in private. On the Couch Maybe you’ve covered this base already, but did you know that the living room staple could actually help you or-gasm? Morse says that stacking up the cushions under your lower back makes it more likely that you’ll reach an or-gasm. Or you could lean over the side for an awesome twist on the usual do-ggy st-yle. At a Hotel “Hotel s’ex is amazing because there isn’t any clean up. You can just check in and it can be all about s’ex,” says Kate. She suggests getting out of your comfort zone by doing some role-playing (you’re now officially two h-ot strangers on vacation). If you’re looking for something a little wilder, Kate also says that s’ex on a private hotel balcony is super h-ot—you know, if it’s actually private. “No one knows you, it’s dark, you can look over the city, and you’re still close to your room.” On the Stairs Who knew you had this ideal s’ex spot in your home all along? May we recommend the standing do-ggie style? Bend o-ver a few steps up from him so your parts are aligned and he can ent-er you without having to crouch. You can also have him recline on a step while you str-addle him with your back to his chest. Use the step below for leverage so you can stay steady while thr-usting. You can also have him reach around for a little extra st-imulation. The two of you will never look at stairs the same way again. At a Friend’s Place One reader told us that the ho-ttest place she’s had s’ex was at her friend’s apartment. Why? Because the walls were super thin and she and her boyfriend had to be “nearly silent.” She said that being really, really quiet “made everything feel so much more urgent and h-ot.” We couldn’t agree more. In the Shower Having s’ex in a pool or lake sounds h-ot, but it actually makes you more susceptible to UTIs and STDS—not to mention that chlorine can make con-doms less effective. But one safe place to get wet and wild is in the shower. Think shower s’ex is pretty standard? Let us prove you wrong: Get creative with the tub. At an Event Whether it’s a wedding, a sporting event, or a big barbeque, there’s something about connecting during a public event that’s super h-ot, says Kate. During an outing that has enough people to let you sneak off unnoticed, find a bathroom or closet farthest away from the crowd, to lower your chances of getting caught. “After that 15 minutes together, you go back to the party with a secret that no one knows about except the two of you,” says kate. In Front of a Mirror Consider this the easiest s’ex tweak ever. One reader told usthat doing it do-ggy st-yle in front of a mirror was a huge tu-rn on for her because she could see how into it she and her partner were. In the Car Kate told us that cars are one of her favorite public places to have s’ex. She recommends pulling off to the side of a not-so-busy road, pushing back the seats (or hopping into the backseat) and steaming up those windows. Another option: Both of you can get in the driver’s seat, slide it back, and st-raddle him while he grabs the steering wheel for extra leverage. On the Beach Beach s’ex is just inherently ro-mantic, says Kate, which can help women really get in the mood. “Women sometimes need the right atmosphere.” That said, it’s probably best to lay a towel down on the sand to prevent it from getting into tricky areas. And stick to getting busy on land, since salt water can really dry out the skin in your ne-ther regions. On a Plane. If you have the resources, you can a club like Love Cloud which offers co-uples the chance to do the nop-ants dance while flying in a private plane above the Las Vegas strip, the Hoover Dam, and Lake Meade. The plane is tricked out with a cushy red bed and heart-shaped pillows. Maybe it’s a little cheesy, but it sure beats those tiny airplane bathrooms. The 40-minute trip will cost a fortune While out of the box locations are definitely a great way to spice things up and create some awesome memories, it’s important to draw the line anywhere you could get hurt, get caught, or put yourself in danger, says Kate. Another thing to avoid before getting busy someplace random: alc-ohol. “Try not to do it after dri-nking, because you put yourself more at risk of getting injured or caught,” she says.
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