2015: Change Your Focus: If one thing fails to give you joy there are over one thousand and one things more out there that can give you joy. 2015 is not the year to whine about things you wished worked out fine in 2014 and in years past. Perhaps, there are certain things in your life with their uncertainties, problems and challenges, and stuffs like issues, dreams, goals and relationships that have gone haywire. Take your focus off stuffs that drains your energy negatively, put your focus on what taps from your energy and at same time emPowers you. Stop chasing stuffs(things others have and you wished you have and may not have) burning 2500 calories of your brain and muscle energy per minute, run a lot better and faster with what youve got already(your inborn gift and present resources, be like Jesus in the business of 5 loaves of bread and two fishes), it wilk make you better, and get you places faster. Hey, this shouldnt be your licence to monopolize mediocrity! Its necessary you have goals, dreams, keep friends, have relationships, take courses, start a dream. Its also a perequsite you do your S.W.O.T analysis, but but but, if anything wont challenge and motivate you, give you joy and satisfaction, make you happier and better.... GET RID, if you believe in endurance, try a trek. When sunlight is focused on the laser it empowers it to burn. When your mind is focused on your problems , just like the mummies, you give them blood to live more! So, if your barren, it aint easy, stop whinning, thousands of babies are out there they need a father and or a mother, shift your attention off barreness to giving cares. Adopt a child, give that child the love you would give your child, soon enough the love will make him look like you(laughs but fact). Jobless? Take a volunteer job, it aint easy, just be happy! If its your spouse, its not everything about your spouse thats wrong, shift your focus off that one thing, provided its not life threatening and look for 1001 others things in him. He must be amazing in some ways! or never mind, what i am trying to say is if one thing or person wont give you joy, one thousand and one others will. Gradually, every departments of our lives will get fixed if we could shift our focus off the wrong things,our heartaches and pains. You have that choice, its what makes you powerful. If its not giving you joy, you should reform it, or repair it, or a lot better is replace it. Not all things can be directly replaced( say marriage), but so many things can be reformed and repaired. And be cautious of whinning while reforming and repairing, its still a pattern of suffering and smiling. The deal is shift your focus first, from the bad it is, to the good it can be! Dont count losses, speculate, and expect the best by shifting or changing your focus. Happy And Prosperous 2015 Lawore Ibukun Abraham
Posted on: Fri, 02 Jan 2015 22:53:20 +0000
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