270) “Any Area That Is Not Successful In My Present Relationship Is A Result of Competition: In subtle and, sometimes not so subtle ways, every person fights for themselves rather than working for the partnership to succeed. Competition is a lower form of consciousness that leads to power struggles and deadness. It wrecks our relationship because each of us will be trying to take care of our own needs rather than working together and finding a common purpose. Competition has us believe that we are either superior or inferior to our partner, which does not support our relationship. Our willingness to heal competition allows for intimacy, contact, and communication; all of which spell success. Today, take a look at where you are not succeeding in your felationship. What are you competing about? When you have found some answers, share these with your partner. Apologize to your partner for making them less or better than you, whichever is the case for each answer. As you begin to acknowledge these things about yourself, you find yourself moving through the competition and your relationship leaps forward. Your openness and willingness to heal all the hidden aspects in your relationship move you and your partner forward together.” - Chuck Spezzano, Ph.D., “If It Hurts It Isn’t Love” p. 285
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