3-11-14 Topic: Down playing attraction... In many if my discussions with female friends who are looking for explanations regarding their situation with a guy, there seems to be a consistent thread: disregarding the importance of physical attraction. This initial interest is almost always a fundamental reason for issues women have with men IMO and it all happens before really knowing the other person. For men, since we are the initiators/aggressors in many situations, we are limited by the options at our disposal. Many men take this a step further and look for the path of least resistance (i.e. tiger woods). Given this reality, I see the situation in three colors: Red light-not that attracted, but willing to engage until a better option presents itself Yellow light-somewhat attracted, but wish something about you was better physically Green light-cant stop thinking about you, gotta get together as much as possible, willing to use all available resources to have access to you consistently Most female friends i have spoken to about heir man-issues consider themselves green lights, but the reality is most are considered reds or yellows by the guy they are dating. I know some will get this twisted and give the its not about the physical reaction, but this the true reality for a lot if men out here. If more people talked specifically and honestly about this, i believe we would have a much lower divorce rate b/c things would end before the erroneous proposal. Just my 2 pennies of the day-i look fwd to the commentary!
Posted on: Tue, 11 Mar 2014 17:54:09 +0000
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