482/Finding fault increases Happiness Think of any recent conflict with your loved ones or with your colleagues. Find one way in which your behaviour was not appropriate in that situation. May be you said something insensitive, rude or even inconsistent with your own words or values. Can you think about it? Within your head, you have two lawyers who keep arguing for you. Just listen to them. One lawyer argues that you have done right, the other lawyer argues what you did was wrong. Now, focus on your second lawyer and accept any one of your fault. It may hurt you in the beginning. But allow him to proceed with his argument. Permit him to present all the facts that you were at fault. When you find fault with yourself, it will first hurt you. But as you dig deeper, you will surprisingly find a deep sense of pleasure mixed with pride. It’s because of you taking responsibility of your own behaviour. WOW - Super Cool Stuff! Apply it in your life today & feel the difference. HappynessCoach.co.in
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