A Depolarized Man has Lost His Lust for Life and May Take a Mistress "When a man denies his desire for the feminine, either by choice or due to familiarity, it is a sign of his depolarization even toward the world (flipping the world the middle finger and wanting to climb under a big rock). He may seek a mistress in order to re-invigorate him, but this is usually only a temporary and complicated solution, since it is only a matter of time before his mistress also becomes familiar, and thus tiresome. Any woman toward whom a man becomes depolarized will feel his rejection, disgust, and turning away. In response, she will become angry and destructive. Her "unhusbanded" energy will begin to move chaotically, becoming even self-destructive. A man has no excuse; he must cultivate a polarized relationship to his woman and his world if he is to remain in relationship with them." ~ David Deida I have helped many a couple renew their polarized energy but it has also been true that the level of contempt and lack of motivation on one or both parts makes for the only option for health to be to break off their relationship. Still, the man must learn to polarize himself to the feminine or drift in his purpose in life, to renew his fearless passion, to deeply connect with a new woman in full commitment to stay polarized to each other.
Posted on: Mon, 10 Jun 2013 03:02:06 +0000
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