A mother would like your advice. I was an orphaned girl that nobody cared about. Due to that I worked for 5yrs in Telecoms after my OND so as to gather money for HND and God really stood by me. I saved about 1.6m in which I lend one of our loyal dealer 1m, he used to give me 40k as a interest per month. When I gained admission, I started selling different products e.g laptops, modems and recharge card with 600k and 40k interest that comes in month. There was a time I came to Lagos to buy goods and I was duped by 419. Still I didnt relent. During 2nd semester HND 1 my courtship of 4yrs led to marriage and I took in immediately. Before I finished my HND I gave birth to BBB. I was posted to Lagos for NYSC because thats where my hubby is based. I continued with my business in Lagos in which I added jewellery, clothes and shoes to it. When I see that those things demands big money, I had to call the man that I want to liquidate my acct with him. And he refunded my money within a month. It was then my hubby knew that I have that amount. And since then he didnt let me rest. There was a day he told that I should lend him some money for ICAN, as far as I was concerned it is for our own good so I gave him the money. During the program and up till now Im the one taking doing most of the responsibilities in the house. There was a time he lent more money saying he wants to buy land. Later I saw a sms on his phone telling his friend that sold the land to him to refund the money and up till now he has not told me anything about it. There was a day I audited my account and I saw that my business is really going down, so I asked for close to 1m that he has lent from me not to talk about the money I have dashed him. Since then he has been keeping nagging with me and our baby. Now my baby is 2yrs and Im carrying a pregnancy of 37weeks, Im the only one taking care of the house, work and business. With all these, If I should go to market to buy my goods and come home late, he will abuse me and say that I should stop my business. All he cares about is to go work by 6am come back 9pm, shower, eat, ping and whenever he is eating if my baby should move near him, he will be shouting at him as if he is dealing with 5 years old boy. He doesnt care nor have time for me and my baby anymore, even the one in my womb since I asked for my money.. Mothers please advice me on what to do...
Posted on: Fri, 30 May 2014 17:00:00 +0000
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