A note to my ex girlfriends sister to clear my name and stop her lashing out at me. Melissa. You pass judgment upon hearing your sisters biased one sided story which I am sure she has omitted quite a lot. Granted there are some things I could have done to try to deescalate the situation. But lets go back a little ways. Your sister Sharon has told me before that she thought that the relationship with me was so she could have some kind of relationship with my kids. Wrong reason to enter the relationship with me. After working through that issue and your sister convincing ,e she was in it for me and about one week before Justins accident your sister told me that she would stay the night here with me if my kids were also staying. Damn. I wonder why? Could it be because she has failed with her own kids. Did she then use my kids to make her own kids jealous of mine to get to spend more than just a couple of minutes with her own kids once every week or so. Now lets follow that up with me doing everything to be supportive of your sister and Justins accident. I was the one that did everything to get Sharon to Justins side. I am the one who offered support to her ex husband which whom I have no problem with. I support the two of them coming together to provide the best support they can for their son. Their coming together to support there son is great and supported very much by me. Now I had very little time to be around Sharon while waiting at the hospital. I left and bought breakfast for everyone so that they would not have to leave the bed side of Justin. Sounds pretty thoughtful doesnt it? Now I had little time to be in Sharons presence and with understanding on my part with what was at hand. But the little amount of time I had I watched Sharon always gazing at Paul. When we walked stood or sat anywhere she was always glued to Pauls side. This was uneasy to see as she has mentioned Paul saying he wanted to her just come back before and her past of always running back to him many times. I was a little jealous and when I got the chance to bring it up to her as she played games, face booked and watched tv along side her heavily sedated sleeping son, I went to her side and asked her to sit on the couch for a couple of minutes with me in Justins room. I got a glance from her and she turned her attention back to the tv. I went back again and touched her arm and requested it again. Once again she ignored me with out saying a word and drew her attention back to the tv. I merely needed a couple of minutes to just make her aware of what she was doing and how it affected me. I did not think it was intentional but never the less it was happening and affected me. I ended up laying down on the couch that made out to a bed and listened to Sharon tell Paul to lay down and get some sleep. That she was not going to lay down and that she was going to stay in the chair all night next to Justins side. Later she was not truthful to that either with me. The room was hot, conversation going on in the room and now I am not only concerned with Sharons actions but am upset with her for completely ignoring me also for no reason keeping her attention on the tv instead. So I left to sleep in my vehicle for the second night in a row. Sharon showed no emotion or concern toward me or any of my requests to talk. Now this is where I went wrong. I sent a msg stating that I saw the stars in her eyes for Paul. That I could not compete with that and that I understood because of their long history together. That I did not feel that I was the right guy for her. This all derived from her actions that caused jealousy followed by her ignoring me. Not the best way it could have been handled. Sharon reacted with anger about the text and maybe rightfully so to a certain degree. But she never would address the events that lead up to the text. Nor try to understand what and or why these events happened. She could only react with anger to the one action that her many actions lead to happening. From there this has grown more and more out of control. And though Sharon and I have both made mistakes in mine and Sharons relationship you are only causing more damage to even more than just Sharon and I for acting out like a child against me in an attempt to bash me here on face book. Grow up and let Sharon and I handle our own business. Guide her and help her with out trying to lash out at me. Our relationship had nothing to do with yours and my friendship. But if you feel to continue to lash out at me here or at work let me assure you that you are wasting your time. Sharon and I are parting our ways for damn good reasons and Sharon is no angel nor am I in this mess. Let the dust settle and let Sharon and I part our ways. Quit trying to stir the dust up on my side. Rest assured you have AMAZED me with your joining in with your foolish behavior. You are not part of the solution but only joining in as part of the problem.
Posted on: Wed, 23 Oct 2013 06:58:33 +0000
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