A reader would like your advice. Gudday mamalette,pls I need advice from the house,pls hid my I D and notify me wen posted,Have been married to my hubby for 13yrs and bless wit 4kids.the past yrs have lived in tears and sorrow wen ever my hubby is drunk.he has this habit of always going out wit friends to drink.both on weekends and weekdays.and wen he is drunk,he will beat me and asked me to leave his house,have begged,fight,prayed,talked to him.yet no changes.instead he is getting worst.have packed out severally after sometime he will come wit his people to beg,I will return only for him to start again after some weeks.have reported him to his boss,my pastor bcos he does not attend church wit us.the last one he did some days back dat he came home drunk,have stop talking or complaininng about his drinking habit.I now ignore him,yet once he is drunk,he come home and insult me and my parents in the present of the kids,calls me names,am going into deppression bcos am always lonely wit the kids at home,I do the shores alone,take care of the kids and go to work too,yet wen he is drunk,I dont have peace.some days back,he came home drunk,bcos I asked him why he allow our little baby to touch pepper and use it to rub his eyes and bum bum,bcos he was in the kitchen then,he started insulting me,calling me names as usual,wen I replied him,he came to my room and started beating me,press my neck,saying he will kill me if I dont leave his house,my mamas in the hux,I cud not hit him,I was frustrated,all my face was swollen,he was even shouting too,I have had enof of his beating and insults,I decided to pack out,he went to were my rice cooker and blender was and destroyed them,he wanted to destroy my washing machine bfor some neighbors intervened,saying it was in his hux I bought those things so if am leaving him,I will leave his hux empty handed.God knows I tried to make my marriage work.presently,am in my parents hux,wen I cough,I cough out blood bcos he hit me on the chest.since that day,he has not called or text me to say sorry,the kids are wit me here too.Am planing on going to welfare so they will tell on how to bring feeding mooney for his kids.am tired of him,I no longer love or feel anytin for him,bcos of the way he treats me,pls mamas I need ur advice on wat else to do,Note,his family,friends and everybody have talked to him,am working,I can care for my kids and myself,I want to move on.Sorry for the long writeup.
Posted on: Sat, 26 Jul 2014 16:00:01 +0000
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