A significant population of women in urban areas can be considered eligible spinsters. They are single, educated, probably working and ready to settle down. But where have all the good, eligible bachelors gone? Most educated women were loud, dismissive and proud in their early 20s. The youthful idealism that drove them made them see life myopically. Down the line they dump the right men, only to arrive at 30 with no ‘dream man’ in sight. There are those who choose to dabble with singlehood, maybe with a baby or fomenting with feminist ideals along the line that ‘a woman does not need a man to complement her life’. Good luck for them. Lets talk about those who would like to be married but confronted by the conspicuous absence of serious men: Past 28, a woman’s biological capital starts diminishing and it takes a lot of money to maintain a smooth skin and fight gravity on certain body parts. Those lucky to have the ageless bodies like those of Mariah Carey or Toni Braxton, can buy time but soon we classify them as cunning cougars. Those not as luck to have been married by 32 discover what a daunting task is to find the perfect match. Past 32, available men are either widowers in their 40s or younger men gold-digging her. A 32-year-old man will first try someone younger before trying a 32-year-old spinster. It is about this time that a woman really becomes desperate. She lowers her standards to unacceptable levels. Life has it, that men take advantage of the desperate women. ~leonard omboto
Posted on: Sun, 07 Sep 2014 11:08:15 +0000
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