ATTENTION WOMEN [Boy-men too] Sometimes (wo)men stay mentally and emotionally stuck in a past or failed relationship. It could be because: • they still hope for a future with the other person; • feel they need to be compensated for the time and effort invested; • try to make the other person feel guilty so they take advantage of situations; • hold a grudge against the other person and are waiting for something to happen so they can stop feeling the way they do, etc. Whatever the reasons, those negative feelings are not going to go away until you take ACTION! Heres a little advice: LET IT GO and move on with your life! You think others are contemplating on what has passed? The only person suffering is yourself. At the very least, remove yourself from the situation, cut off contact with the other person, etc. Do something! Dont just sit there hoping that the other person is going to save you by giving you what you want, or that they are going to miraculously say the right words to make you feel better. Thats NOT going to happen. You know how you change the cyclical loop thats stuck in your head? YOU need to take CONTROL of your life and DECIDE to CHANGE. You make the decision to forgive and move on with your life. As long as you continue to stay in the negative loop, your eyes will continue to see the past and will distort the reality thats in the NOW that is right in front of you. Why is that? Because whatever you THINK, you create. You create your reality. So, you can continue to wallow in your victim mentality...OR... You can get up, dust yourself off, go find a hobby, discover who you really are by doing things you enjoy doing, and make Jesus your friend so you can smile, enjoy life, and be in peace. She puts on strength and honor as if they were her clothes. She can laugh at the days that are coming. She speaks wisely. She teaches faithfully. She watches over family matters. She is busy all the time. (Proverbs 31:25-27 NIRV) Can you add even one hour to your life by worrying? So dont worry. Dont say, What will we eat? Or, What will we drink? Or, What will we wear? [Who will date me? Will we ever be together? Will I ever get married?
Posted on: Tue, 01 Apr 2014 15:02:26 +0000