Alot of men cant help feeling Insecured when their wife is Independent. Majority will never want to marry a lady that is very Independent because they cant help but feel any independent woman will be very rude and refuse to be submissive, hence they try to relegate their women....too bad! Most men are failing to realise that, a man and his wife are supposed to be One strong indivisible entity, that can only sustain their relationship/marriage via acceptance and tolerance. . . . .Yes i know you all will say its African mentality but seriously, its. Very funny. Gone are the days when its a womans job to sit in the kitchen all the days of her life, and the earlier you all wake up to the realization of this harsh reality, the better for all. In most cases, this assumption that, Independent ladies are not suitable to be made wives is nothing but a mere fallacy. Its a far cry from the gospel truth but, lots of men will chose to be bigots over this issue. In a situation where a man has madeup his mind that, his woman will be trying to bully/intimidate him just because she is Independent and probably supercedes him in life.......what can one expect from such a mindset? No matter the level of patience and effort the woman puts into making that relationship/marriage work, it will end up futile, no thanks to the mans insecurities. If you as a man wont give your woman a fair chance of proving to you that she can be humble, submissive, loving and attentive to your every need, despite her superceding you in life, then Mr Man, i think you have to wake up, shake your head vigorously and go take a long cold shower. Dont tell me you are the most Benighted man alive!.....if your woman supercedes you in life, its no big deal.....why not proudly Celebrate her rather than try to frustrate her to death with your perpetual nagging which stems from your deep insecurities? . . . . .In most cases where an Independent woman disrespects her man, if you take a closer look, youll discover that the man is responsible for her being disrespectful to him......you cant expect her to forever remain calm, calculated and collected when all you do is seize the slightest opportunity to rub it in her face that shes being unreasonable all because she is Independent #Fact . Truth is, some Men whose women are quite Independent, are really suffering from serious insecurity issues and they are very good at concealing it......Chai, If you are such a man, all i can say to you is.......youve caught the flu and i wish you a speedy recovery! #HOO
Posted on: Wed, 12 Mar 2014 17:18:29 +0000
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