Anonymous Question (Female) So there is a guy I work with I noticed him prob 6 months ago (he works in another office of ours) an I briefly heard him say he had a girl so I left it alone. Although very attracted to him I left it alone. we had never talked or introduced ourselves. A situation came up about 2 months ago where we started talking causally I found out he still is with this person an supposedly has really tried to make it work but says he just sees things will never change so supposedly in jan when lease is through they are parting ways. He doesnt bad mouth the situation to me or her. That was a one time convo about his situation. However we talk almost everyday we are at work all day through messages.. An some very flirty messages ill admit..An Im very confused how to take it,to a degree he seems like a playa an like he just wants to hook up BUT last week we went out one night as friends an honest I was fully expecting him to try an sleep with me, Ive already stated to him As long as there is a her I wont but I wont lie I was curious to see if it was just about hooking up or if he maybe has been honest with me that there time is bout over etc... When we went out it was honestly nothing like I thought although he was flirty he opened all my car doors for me, had his arm around me when we were out, walked me to the door I mean did not push the issue at all (besides a few flirty comments) so now Im like confused its not like we can hang out often at this point. I had asked him At one point what he was expecting from this situation an he basically stated he believed god puts people in out lives for many reasons an he was open to what ever reason I was put in his life. But Im like should I just leave him alone before I get hurt an caught up, is he just looking to hook up, or maybe there is potential
Posted on: Sat, 30 Nov 2013 21:54:09 +0000
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