Are they the one, or not the one? Youll know its Gods plan if you two can agree on how life should be lived, in the major areas of life. Where do you want to live? Do you want kids? How many? How do you expect money to handled? Family of origin issues? Importance of friends/ hanging out? If agree on all these things, and the man is yet pleased to dwell with you... women If you agree with these spiritual things and you are secure in the man as he is firmly guided by Christ. Agreement is key. Make a list of all of the things that matter to him and to you and to God. Ask questions and also observe some of the answers for your self outside of the questioning. (people lie) Let patience have her way. Get actual evidence that can be measured and coberated by others as well as yourself. But what about love? Love wants to be free it really needs no coaxing. The bible compares love to a deer that is easily scared away... its in this same way that your best love will also come like a deer, when its safe to show up. I ask you, how will you know that it is safe to lets your love show? AFTER you have seen, and gotten confirmation on your spiritual agreement with the other person. Too many of us rely on our heart and preferences in choosing. you like fish, I like fish too you like movies, I like movies too your from NY, my family is from NY too. your a pet lover, I had a dog growing up too. Its agreement in the things of God that we should dwell on in our decision making. When we first meet discussion of spiritual compatibility should dominate the conversation. We think that this is the time to evaluate your feelings for the other person...but, you want is for the things of God to be your starting and ending point. How was church last week? Tell me about your Pastor. Do your volunteer at church? Whats your favorite worship song? Tell me of a recent message that resonated with you? As you spend more time get into Who is Jesus to you? Are you saved? If yes, How are you different now, since salvation. You can talk about communion, baptisms, the blood of Jesus, etc. [ we need to learn what kind of Christian the person is] Our emotions and feelings dont need a kick start...theyre gonna kick in when ever they feel like its safe to come out. Lets actually get to a safe place with the full backing of the Lord before we allow love to come out and play. Spending time with someone spiritually not only is it a great tool to overcome the emotions of meeting someone new, but it also glorifies God. It helps you to determine with confidence who is, and who is not called to be with you. Men who will put God first in his choosing of a bride. are assured the favor of God. One favor is complete and total peace in whom to choose... with a clarity that can only come from God. Women who will put God first in her choosing of a bride-groom (or hubby as we say it today) with gain a security and a peace in her choice that surpasses any trust that she has known... greater than the boyfriends of your youth, so great that it could only be God. Youll know they are the one when you take the time to see them as God sees them, to spend time with them in discussion about...and not just relying on your feelings, and preferences.
Posted on: Sat, 15 Mar 2014 08:25:15 +0000
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