Being control freak or to allow naivety of chidren are two options - TopicsExpress



          

Being control freak or to allow naivety of chidren are two options we got as parents. Control is tempting and has roots in imperfection of our past, whereas allowance for naivety is generosity and is rooted in our fantasy of free will. When we control and discipline children, we propose a hypothesis of goodness to them; why hypothesis? Because it is not definitive. When we allow for naivety we play Darwin naturalist and hope for the giraffe to grow its neck longer. Thats how we ferry between social and animal; too much of control leads to social animal, and when giraffe is left on its own we see an animal in society. Either it is a circus aka society or is jungle. But then jungle is a testimony of natures masterpiece and circus is abuse of freedom. Ahh being parent is a difficult choice.
Posted on: Tue, 19 Aug 2014 03:29:43 +0000

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