Being kind to people who are nice to us is nothing more than an exchange of emotions. But real character is found in those who freely give without keeping score. But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; - Matthew 5:44 Marriage isnt about you and it isnt about me. Its about centering our relationship on Jesus Christ who freely gave of Himself when we least deserved it. God is kind to both the just and to the unjust. That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust. - Matthew 5:45 Its not always easy to be kind, but its possible when we take the focus off of ourselves and turn them onto our Lord. When I think of a kind wife, these are 7 of the habits that stand out to me most: 1. Shes affectionate - all human beings benefit from affection. A smile, a kiss, a warm embrace when you walk in through door... These are the things that remind us were loved. 2. Shes understanding - Although we dont always agree with one another, its a blessing when someone makes an effort to understand our point of view isnt it? It takes an open heart and a listening ear. 3. She looks to God to sharpen her character - When we pattern our lives after our Savior we surrender our lives to His will. Regardless of what pop culture is doing, our decisions are based on truth. 4. Shes strengthened by prayer - Prayer is an important step in reshaping our lives. If we want to center our marriage around Christ, first and foremost, we need to surrender our heart to His will. 5. She knows that a kind word turns away wrath - We all know this, but do we practice it enough? Kind words are powerful. They can diffuse a situation and calm a troubled heart. 6. She builds up her husband instead of tearing him down - Listening to him, making an effort to be cheerful, and ignoring his faults are just a few of the ways we can build up our husbands in a world that is tearing them down. 7. Shes not perfect, but shes growing in grace - There are those who see virtue as an impossibility. We all cant be this perfect, and we wall cant be this strong. While that is true, its important to remember that building virtue on faith is a life-long journey upon which the road is paved by His grace. You are loved by an almighty God, ~ Darlene Schacht/Time-Warp Wife
Posted on: Tue, 12 Nov 2013 15:50:36 +0000
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